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[pin2xmemory]

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I had a guilty conscience about rejecting abandon request at the latter of match.

Sometimes, we think the opponents are “kiasu” so they want to abandon. But viewing from another angle, they may miss many rounds due to faulty connection, consequently, you had an edge on the match. Some would have seized the opportunity to form long words. But then, the opponent proposes abandon.

Everybody has their own goal such as perfect five, attaining above 200 marks etc… Thus making us feel reluctant to press “Ok”. Suddenly, the opponent disconnected, we miss our goal and we define people as bad quitters. Actually, they don’t mean it. Here comes all the misunderstanding, accusations, irritations, revenges… And, please don’t ignore people who clarify it with you. It hurts.

One more thing, some may accused people keep using skills to form (maybe) just a 5 letters word. And think they are “kiasu”, they rich, they bully people. I would like to emphasize, every people has their own goal to achieve, just like perfect 5.

Don’t judge by exteriors unless you see the truth with your own eyes. Revenges will only end with forgiveness and considerations. You will feel better thinking in this way =)

[babyfat]

Originally Posted by pin2xmemory

I had a guilty conscience about rejecting abandon request at the latter of match.

Sometimes, we think the opponents are “kiasu” so they want to abandon. But viewing from another angle, they may miss many rounds due to faulty connection, consequently, you had an edge on the match. Some would have seized the opportunity to form long words. But then, the opponent proposes abandon.

Everybody has their own goal such as perfect five, attaining above 200 marks etc… Thus making us feel reluctant to press “Ok”. Suddenly, the opponent disconnected, we miss our goal and we define people as bad quitters. Actually, they don’t mean it. Here comes all the misunderstanding, accusations, irritations, revenges… And, please don’t ignore people who clarify it with you. It hurts.

One more thing, some may accused people keep using skills to form (maybe) just a 5 letters word. And think they are “kiasu”, they rich, they bully people. I would like to emphasize, every people has their own goal to achieve, just like perfect 5.

Don’t judge by exteriors unless you see the truth with your own eyes. Revenges will only end with forgiveness and considerations. You will feel better thinking in this way =)

Well said... it wasn't easy at times for one to realize their mistake in life, let alone revealing our guilty conscience. After reading what you have wrote as above, i felt that it wasn't solely your fault or an intentional one, but just a normal self nature doing/reaction to almost every individual of us, yet you are being honest and brave enough to admit and spell it out to us.

Life is never about gaining, winning or losing... but considering, sharing and caring is so much more valuable. The virtues of admitting and the thoughts giving in you is hard to come by these days.

One who truly admit and aware of his/her own err for a better self is then a true learning spirit for us in life and with that you have also earned yourself a true admiration from us. To err is human, moreover, we are not saint. Don't brood over it too much so long as you have finally come to realize and understand it.